Most of us resist change, hence development… So what frightens us so much that compels us to live in conditions we want to change? When we spend years in a job we do not want, when we are imprisoned in an unhappy relationship, when we want to start a diet to be more fit but cannot start, when we sigh in front of the gym and never enter; We are left alone with a huge feeling of guilt. The idea of going outside of our safe areas sounds terrifying, and that's why we can't stop living in our comfort zones, which is most familiar to us. By making a new decision every day, you may be making a new development plan! But the important thing is; Finding a realistic source of motivation for you to take action to reach your goal. Consider a young girl months away from her wedding: She has never exercised and never paid attention to her diet. On her wedding day, she spends her days in the Pilates hall to wear the most beautiful wedding gown and become a bride admired by everyone.